Thursday, July 14, 2011

Been fun? NOPE

So a lot has happened in a very short amount of time. I figured I would update the blog...since I have been a slacker. In this order.....
Father-in-law passed away (sad)
Broke Ankle (ouch-really the cast in more of a pain in the rear that what the ankle is)
Turned 33 (eh)
Had my one year NED (no evidence of the disease) date for Melanoma-(BIG DEAL!)
Decided to move family in with Mom-in-law (lots of work)


and I have no pictures of any of it. I might go into more details later, but most likely not...by the time that I have time for details I might have a newborn and have much funner things to blog about.

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Meet Cooper

Who might be just as camera shy as Chevy was!

Elaine's glasses

second time!

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Chevy 2000-2011

So it feels really weird to blog about this, but I need to. I am a cat person.....you don't have to let them out, if you go out of town you just make sure that they have enough food & water, you know they are simple and they are not so in your face with excitement all the time. Besides I never really had a dog growing up. When Kris and I got married we had discussed kids but not pets. We honeymooned in San Diego. On the way home I knew that it was just the perfect time to ask for a cat. He hates cats. I mean HATES them. Kris wanted to know where I planned on getting this cat I had in mind. I thought we would rescue it from the pound. The very next day that he had off....I think it was a Saturday and only a day or two after we had gotten home we headed for the pound. When you are at the pound you have to check out all the animals....just like going into the pet store when you pass by....I hate snakes and reptiles but for some reason you still have to walk by them. The pound didn't have any cats. Nope-they sure had a couple of cute dogs. We got a couple out to play in the little yard....one of them was Chevy. He was SO SUPER CUTE! I wish I had a picture-but that was before our digital days and I have no idea if we even have one or where it would be. He was tiny...and really really fun....Kris found his dog. How in the world we ended up with a dog when we went for a cat....no clue. We later found out that he was between 5-6 weeks old when we got him. Boy was I not prepared for a puppy. By that next Thursday night I was going C-R-A-Z-Y. I called Kris up at work and said..."I know you really like your dog and all, but I am going nuts....let's have a trainer here by Saturday or the dog goes." I don't know that we had a trainer by that Saturday but it really was just a short time later. We learned so much! Still til this day we say "that was the best $300 we have ever spent". Really it was. Get a dog-get a trainer.

Chevy has been moved all over and handled it well. He had traveled, loved the car, gotten mad and sulked when he wasn't invited to go along, he has protected my kids, not let people in the door, bitten the pizza guy (really if I tell you not to pet the dog, don't do it). He has made me feel super loved, annoyed, protected and irritated at times. He even bit Kris in the butt one time-protecting someone he took a liking too. I think that he may have made us laugh the most though. He was funny....in a very sly (stinky) way. Looking back at his life I think he may have been a little camera shy. I had a super hard time find any pictures of him. The one that I did find-well you can tell that he wasn't happy at all about having to sit and have his picture taken.

We tried dressing him up for Halloween once, not happy about that either. Overall he followed me around the house, and it was great-when he was little, he moved faster and I wasn't always tripping over him. He mainly just did his own thing around the house. When we first to Michigan and he had his first experience with snow-he pranced. Oh he hated it. He would cower over having to go out in it and use the bathroom. It took a snowball fight to get him used to it. He even had a few people that he just loved....when my dad or Kris' dad would come for a visit, we had to let the dog outside to great them. He would just get so excited he would piddle on the floor. Lately he has been constant mess. He learned that Evan would feed him if hung out around the high chair-which also means that we constantly being pelted by something. The last experience was strawberry yogurt-nice pink splats on his black fur. I would really love another dog just like him.....I mean-JUST like him. Stinky gas and all.

Sunday we came home from church and by the end of the evening he made a couple of messes in the house. Poor dog not feel good at all-not acting different, but you don't vomit for nothing. I notice that in one of his piles there was a corn cob. So I got on-line and googled "my dog ate a corn cob". The many message board that came up basically said that he would either pass it or he needed surgery. The signs we needed to look for were vomiting, diarrhea, not wanting to eat or drink, discomfort. If the dog had these signs to rush him to the vet. When did we have corn??? A week before-an entire week! By the next morning he had gotten sick two more times and was just not himself-we got him into a vet and sure enough corn cob on the x-rays. Bowel blockage. We did have the option to do surgery. BUT he is (was) old. There could be complications with anesthesia, and the vet really wouldn't know what he was in for until he got in there.....he bowel was already really swollen. The minimum surgery cost would be $1,200, going up for any complications. He was old. It was better just put him to sleep. We asked if there was something that could be done to comfort him so that we could take him and give the kids a chance to say good-bye then bring him back in the evening.



Nothing like coming home from your very last day of school and hearing that you dog is going to die. I warned them the day before that he was sick...really sick. After we told the kids.....Elaine was upset and started to cry, Drew said "cool can we get a new dog?". Izzy was okay for a bit and then she ended up being the one that took it the hardest. Evan, he is asking about the dog from time to time but doesn't really get it. I made sure that kids got some pictures with him before I took him in. He still tried to slyly walk out the picture.





The girls spent time making cards for the dog. I took them with me. He was such a trooper. I have had this experience before, and this time it was different, he was peaceful. The funny thing, he seemed like he knew what was happening and was ready. The vet assistant came in and put a blanket on the floor...he wouldn't lay on it. He found himself a comfy spot on the floor and that was it- right beside the chair I was sitting in and smashed up against the door. When the vet came in and looked at the dog, in his selected very odd spot in the room...I shrugged and said "at this point he gets to pick his spot". Right now I am missing his ears-odd thing I know but they were super soft and I didn't touch them much...




He will be missed, but it was time....soon than we expected, and really not at all how we thought it would happen....come on it was CORN! We will get a new dog soon. The kids are really looking forward to it.

Monday, May 23, 2011

Favorite talk from General Conference

This was my favorite talk from General Conference this year. I needed to hear it.


Easter 2011

This post is long overdue. I am sure that my mom has been waiting so patiently to see pictures of the kids in their Easter clothes.....they look great mom-THANKS! She was even our here the next weekend and never got to see the pics. Overall Easter day was ruff. I must have just been hormonal. I didn't even take pictures of the egg hunt after church. No one wanted to cooperate for their pictures...and I was hurting.










Drew would not take a normal picture.


Getting a group shot is always so much fun...zoom in on Evan's face.

Why do you need a fridge lock???





So we don't waste the sour cream.

Monday, May 2, 2011

We are having a.....

BOY!!!








I thought for sure that it was going to be a girl. Kris knew it was going to be a boy. I was surprised. I was so sure that I agreed to his name if it was a boy if he would agree to my name if it was a girl. I don't like his boy name. It is weird. In a cute weird way. My girl name was Anne. When the ultra-sound tech was doing her job she spent a lot of time on the heart. I kept telling her..."it doesn't look right to me". Knowing that she could not discuss anything with me. Well turns out that there was a bright spot on the heart....it is called a left ventricular echognic focus. The doc says that nothing is wrong with the heart. BUT that it is a genetic marker for Down Syndrome and Trisomy 18. Do you know anything about genetic markers? Well I didn't. It doesn't mean that my baby will have it, just increased my chances from 1 in 750 to 3 in 750. Well, that and my age add to the increase risk. Am I old???? I didn't think so, but I guess I am old enough to have it increase the risk. With it being a 3 in 750 chance it is still less than a 1% chance. The next test to figure anything out would be an amnio. Not interested. My chances of having a miscarriage are higher doing that than having any issues with the baby. I didn't have anything else bring up red flags. I also had the triple screen blood test and everything came back normal. So one "soft" marker, huh? Does the chance of having a child with either one of these conditions scare me? Oh yeah.... Trisomy 18 is very scary. VERY VERY SCARY... down syndrome...not so much. We are not guaranteed anything in life. Just one more bump in the road to my blessing. Oh and one more thing...this little guy has Drew's ears!

Melanoma

May is Melanoma awareness month. So I thought that I would do my part and make you more aware of what the fact are, just in case you didn't know. Some of them I find crazy and I am sure that you will too. The first time I met with the surgeon even before introducing herself she asked if I had ever had a really bad sunburn? My question was "A?" While holding up 1 finger...."yes a really bad sunburn?" Holding up just one finger. My answer-"I was kid in the 80's growing up in Southern California." I can't even count the number of sunburns (even really bad ones) that I have had. I love the sun-The sun sucks! I find myself or use to find myself loving the sun. Cover those nasty spider veins right? Tan skins helps that. Plus don't we all just want that little bit of a healthy glow? Not anymore I don't. Ever see people that oh so orange? Now I just shake my head over it. I have heard other people say "don't you just want to walk up and slap them for not getting it". The sad thing, we don't realize how bad it is....it is just skin cancer right? Cut it off and you are done? NOPE. Farther down you see some facts about it. Australia is trying to ban the use of Tanning beds to minors. I am not sure if I am for or against this. I have heard the argument....make them aware and then give them a choice. Anyone ever had to sign the paper that they are aware of the risk before entering a tanning bad? I have....the problem with that is that NO ONE GETS IT. As a society we just don't understand those risks that are spelled out for us. We need more awareness. People seem to shy aware from it. Famous people have died from Melanoma.....let's talk about Bob Marley....ask someone what he died from and if the person knows anything about Bob you will most likely be told "brain cancer"....well nope...it was cancer in his brain....it was Melanoma that started on his foot and then because he didn't take care of it, it did end up in his brain. So to keep this from getting any longer...just one last thing...all of my friends....we all know that we hate the little facebook status post about "if you know someone who has or has had cancer....". I am asking that you fill someone in, or spread the word somehow. Help me bring a bit of awareness to this cancer. Just one person maybe? Did you know that there are times when doctors say "I wish I could tell you that this was breast cancer, instead I am saying it is Malignant Melanoma." Can you believe that it is better to have breast cancer than melanoma????? We are so much more aware of Breast Cancer....just a bit of awareness would help. Don't you think. Now I am not saying that having Breast Cancer is not scary, and that people don't die from it, it is just more treatable. There is more awareness for it. THANKS! in advance.


Here are some facts about it from melanoma.org.


  • Skin cancer is the most common form of cancer in the US.

  • Melanoma is the most deadly form of skin cancer. Every hour a person dies from melanoma.

  • Melanoma is one of the fastest growing cancers in the US and worldwide.

  • Melanoma can develop anywhere on the body, including eyes, scalp, hands and feet.

  • Melanoma is most common in men over the age of 50; in from of colon, prostate, and lung cancer. (Funny we hear a lot about those cancers don't we?)

  • In ages 15-29, melanoma is the second most common cancer.

  • The incidence of people under 30 developing melanoma is increasing faster than any other demographic group, soaring by 50% in women since 1980.

  • Today 1 in 58 people will develop melanoma. It is estimated that this year there will be 68,720 new cases and 8,650 people will die from melanoma.

  • Melanoma can develop on anyone-no matter their age, sex or race.

  • The majority of melanoma is caused by exposure to UV light and sunlight.

  • It takes only one blistering sunburn, especially at a young age, to more than double a person's chance of developing melanoma later in life.

  • Exposure to tanning beds before the age of 30 increases a person's risk of developing melanoma by 75%, and younger people who regularly use tanning beds are eight times more likely to develop melanoma than people who have never used them. Occasional use of tanning beds triples their chances.

  • The World Health Organization's International Agency for Research on Cancer reclassified tanning devices into the highest cancer risk category (carcinogenic to humans).

  • Unlike all other cancers, melanoma is visible on the skin, making it easier to detect in the early stages.

  • Most melanoma is curable in the early stages with an 90% survival rate.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Cuddling on the floor


Orange Julius anyone?


See that mustache!?!?! MMmmmm YUM! Homemade Orange Julius. He loves it!


6 oz. Frozen OJ concentrate

1 cup milk

1 cup water

1/2 cup sugar

1 tsp vanilla

8-9 ice cubes


mix it all up in the blender. I like more ice. Don't try it with regular already made OJ and then adding more ice....I just doesn't work. Trust me I know. I have heard that you can replace 1/2 of the regular sugar with powdered sugar and it makes it creamier. Haven't tried it. I like it better than the Orange Julius in the mall....or at least better than the last half a dozen times I have purchased it...they just make it too watery. Hope you enjoy.

Izzy had a Birthday!





Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Helping Dad



Evan sticks his tongue out the same way I did (do) when I was (am) trying to do something that takes concentration.

Scouts




Time to go shopping!


Sunday, March 13, 2011

Vaccinate your kids!

A while ago I posted this blog, and now I have even greater reason to talk about the importance of vaccinating your children. Check out my friends post about it....click here. This post is LONG overdue but I have been sick with thing or another for the post couple of months and I am now just getting to it. Instead of typing it all just check out the 2 post and tell me what you think.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

President Brletich

In school Drew wrote a paper. It was so funny I thought I would share it on here.

God Bless America!
If I were president I would make sure there are no credit cards so we can make our country richer, so that the people will have more money to save. I want no taxes so people can buy more things, we can travel more, and people can ride in taxis. No guns would be allowed because I want to he animals to be safe, innocent people not to be killed. That's why I want to be a president.

He did a good job, and when he wrote it all out it actually took up a whole page.
Apparently he has heard us talk a little do much about the American debt and thinks that it is tied to credit cards. We don't really use them here at our house and have make it very clear as to why. We have also talked a lot about our new income tax hike. Chicago is getting a new Mayor soon, and with all the campaign TV ads going on....I guess he has the Chico ad one too many times about some luxury tax hike and it happens to have a taxi on it with the cabdriver saying "pay the Rahm tax". Boy does he ever absorb everything. I guess I need to let him know that his favorite meat comes from animals.....but they are not shot.....unless you go to Uncle Carl's house.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Blizzard of 2011










I have been hunting around on the Internet for exact amount of snow that we have but I can't find it. I do know that we supposed to get between 1 and 3 inches per hour. Glad it's over. We have a ton of snow but it is hard to tell how much we really got because of the drifting. At one point they announced that they were pulling the snow plows in and calling in the national guard for rescues. I took some other pics of the backyard but I did it with the cell phone and I am not sure how to get them off and on here so these will do. The kids had a blast playing outside. It was Evan's first time in the snow and he was in LOVE!

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Baby #5!

I can normally see things in ultra sound pictures. Circle and a blob is what I see here. So does not look like a baby! BUT it is!!!! I am calling it my complicated blessing right now. I had the verbal okay to get pregnant from both my new dermatologist and new oncologist. Then I went to see the new oncologist and apparently the melanoma that I had over the summer was much more aggressive than he originally thought. If he had know that he would NOT have given me the okay to get pregnant. I can't do scans or anything being pregnant. He also is requesting that my pathology slides be sent to the best melanoma lab in Pennsylvania. Once again I could use some thoughts and prayers. Hoping that the original diagnosis of those four cells that were in the lymph node just being basic mole cells still remains the same. I had the first OB visit yesterday. Everything is looking great from that end. The little heartbeat was so tiny, but made it all so real. I have been nauseous and VERY tired. A tad bit crabby too.

Elaine has a BIRTHDAY!!!

I can't even believe that I have a 10 year old! How did this happen???? I understand that she isn't a baby anymore, but I have her stuck at 5 maybe 6. She had a good time. Requested Orange chicken for dinner, it was super yummy! Opened presents and had cake after dinner. Overall a great day. Happy Birthday Elaine!

A little of Evan

Evan has figured out that he can "ride" a broom and not just sweep with it.

He cleans. I love it!

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Christmas 2010

Warning!!! Picture overload!!!





My parent came for Christmas! We picked them up from the airport on Christmas Eve. We didn't even tell the kids....a couple of times it slipped out but we covered it. Drew did figure it out but boy was he good at keeping the surprise. We had to circle the airport a couple of times and tried to play it off as if I was lost and kept missing the exit. Mom called and talked to Kris and they were loading the back of the car with luggage before the kids even noticed! I even had to tell them turn around. Right when we got home the kids got to open the P.J.'s that they get every year from Grandma and Grandpa. The pictures above were Christmas Eve, the ones below are Christmas morning.



Passing presents out.
















It really wasn't Raisin Bran.

And THE MESS!!!